One thing I think all of us have had to deal with is hurt.
Its bound to happen…
Ive always wonder however… if we forgive someone, why does it sometimes never seem to leave our minds?
After all… when Christ forgives us… it is gone.
I read a devotional today during Taite & Owen’s nap… that touched on this subject & I liked it so much I had to pass it on.
The devotional was called “Lingering Damage”
It was taken from: http://odb.org/
I’m going to clip and paste the devotional here… but you can find it on that site under Sat. Oct 30th.
The verse it gives is…
“The sword shall never depart from your house, because you have despised Me, and have taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite. —2 Samuel 12:10”
When I 1st read this, I didn’t understand it…
Now heres what the devotional said…
A young teen who was constantly getting into trouble always apologized when his parents confronted him. No matter how much he hurt his parents with his previous wrong-doing, he would soon turn around and do something else wrong—knowing he would be forgiven.
Finally, his dad took him out to the garage for a talk. Dad picked up a hammer and pounded a nail into the garage wall. Then he gave his son the hammer and told him to pull out the nail.
The boy shrugged, grabbed the hammer, and yanked out the nail.
“That’s like forgiveness, Son. When you do something wrong, it’s like pounding in a nail. Forgiveness is when you pull the nail out.”
“Okay, I get it,” said the boy.
“Now take the hammer and pull out the nail hole,” his dad replied.
“That’s impossible!” the boy said. “I can’t pull it out.”
As this story illustrates and King David’s life proves, sin carries consequences. Even though David was forgiven, his adultery and murder left scars and led to family problems (2 Sam. 12:10). This sobering truth can serve as a warning for our lives. The best way to avoid the lingering damage of sin is to live a life of obedience to God.
I will let the devotional speak for itself…
I think through Christ we can over come anything!
But I think with those consequences things sometimes will never be the same…
however through Christ, there is hope for a solution… and I pray if you are struggling with any type of offense… or hurting, that this maybe brings some peace to you… and comforts you some how.
A Prayer: Thank You for being slow to anger and filled with compassion.
May I not presume upon Your mercy by assuming there will be no consequences for my sin.
Help me to confess and then to sin no more. Amen.
Our sins can be forgiven and washed away, but their consequences are ours to pay.